Bad Girl Bianca's Seduction Guide

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A. Always remember that YOU are the prize. ACT nonchalant. No matter how hot the girl is, there are plenty of others on the planet from whom you can choose. Never let a woman think for a second that you're enamored by her beauty and would do anything to be with her.

B. Be confident. Insecurity is like death when it comes to pursuing women. Never let it show that you care that much. Even if you're pacing by the phone and checking it every minute to see if she called you can bet that she's doing the same thing, so don't let it show. Ever. Seduction will make you both feel insecure, unless you take the lead.

C. Call sporadically. And keep the conversation light. DON'T BE BORING. Stay away from mundane things. She doesn't care about your landscaping job and the type of fertilizer you use. *yawn* Unsexy. An Alpha Male has an interesting life that he invites a woman into... if you don't have that, be mysterious about it.

D. Do not buy her gifts. No roses, candy, jewelry or trinkets. Save that for Christmas or her birthday. Cards are the way to go. Give her a card... preferably still in the bag.... with something funny and cute in it so that whenever she reads it, she giggles. Do not declare your undying love and affection, though saying "I love you" is a nice touch after you've both said it aloud a few times.

E. Engage in childish behavior with her. Thumb wrestling. Pillow fights. Karaoke. Tickle fests. That will take her to a time in her life when she was happy... and you will be the reciever of all of her good feelings.

F. Find other females to fill your time. Female friends are good... and they are easy to come by. If your 'certain someone' sees that other chicks dig you, she will be MORE attracted to you.

G. Get yourself some nice cologne. A man who smells good can drop panties instantly.

H. Have fun. All the time. Never talk to her about your problems early on. Keep everything upbeat and positive.

I. Interact with her like she's one of the guys. Don't let her win. Rip on her sometimes. Be unpredictable. Remember that she's not the only woman in the world.

J. Just be her friend! Women are attracted to men who enjoy their conversation. If you are friends, then she will see value in that. Especially if she's hot and gets approached all the time. Hang back and take an interest in what she's saying. She will fall for your easy style and if you can do it without drooling then you have got it made.

K. Keep her guessing. Make her miss you a little bit. It's the best gift you can give her. If you tell her you'll call her Tuesday night, send a funny text to her Tuesday afternoon. NEVER be predictable. Men in relationships ruin attraction when they get too comfortable.

L. Look for the RIGHT woman, but don't let your search be full of lonely nights. Go out, have fun, and use sensual seduction techniques on women who you have no intention of being with forever. It's practice and it makes you less insecure. It gives you an opportunity to practice the strategy without feeling rejection.

M. Make women chase you. It's not that difficult. Just don't be available all the time or show too much interest.. But when you're together, amp up the sexual chemistry. Seduction happens when you are away from a woman. You become bigger in her mind when she has time to think about you. Make yourself just scarce enough.

N. Never tell a woman who you are and what you stand for...STFU and just be it. She will know by your actions . There is nothing worse than going out with a guy who tries to sell himself to you. Real men are what they are by their actions.

O. Open up. Even if it's about something small. "I didn't call my mom on Mother's Day, but lied and said her line was busy." or "I have shaved my stomach before." Whatever. A little honesty is cool. It makes her think you can be trusted and that translates into sex/relationship. Trust is key in sensual seduction.

P. P^ssy is meant to be eaten, so EAT IT. Most women do not cum from vaginal intercourse. If you want to make her yours, when the time comes, eat that sh!t like it's Thanksgiving.

Plan to be there for 24-32 minutes unless she's warmed up. And if you're good at it, she'll be whipped. Period.

Q. Quiet mouth, open ears. Listen to what she says. Even if you zone out through most of it, pick up on the key points and bring them up later. She'll give you kudos for your skills, and seduction is all about understanding what makes this person tick. Most men in relationships don't listen... you don't have to grab every word, but paying attention is key to your seduction.

R. Read a freakin' book. And if you don't read, then be smart as hell when it comes to something! Girls want to be wow-ed by conversation. Have something intelligent to say. And if isn't intelligent, at least, let it be outrageous. Boring men/no mental stimulation = masturbation and no sex. Start a conversation and see where it goes.

S. SEXUAL TENSION is EVERYTHING! Why? Because even the ugliest men in the room create it with a little push/pull technique. Push her away, then pull her back. This is how an Alpha Male dazzles women. Read the "Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene.

T. Talk about ideas and fantasies... and be sure to pick one seemingly banal idea to plant in her head, so that every time she sees it she thinks of you. Mention you had a green Toyota in high school that cut off every time you turned it on... she'll laugh, but every time she sees a green Toyota, YOU'LL be on her mind.

U. Use jealousy...at the beginning. Yeah, sounds shady and underhanded, but if you want a chick to dig you (REALLY dig you)... then look at women when they walk by. Comment on their body parts. Talk about old girlfriends and how they were freaks in the bed. It will make her work hard to please you. Trust me.

V. Visit your Mama. If you treat your Mother with respect, your girl will love you for it and think you're one of the good guys.

W. Work on yourself. Be comfortable in your own skin. If you want someone to love you, you have to love yourself first. It's ridiculous to think that someone will want you if you don't love you. Find all of your flaws and accept them. Take some time to get to know you... and be joyful. Then and only then will you find someone who's worthy of your love.

X. Xanadu begins with you. Let her know that when she's with you, life is fun, beautiful, content, drama and responsiblity free.

Y. "Yes", should be used sparingly. Stand up for yourself. BE A MAN!!! If you don't agree with her, let her know. If you don't want to, let her know. If you can't, tell her. But make sure you do tell her "yes" when she's doing the right thing in thebedroom. She'll dig that.

Z. Zodiac should be considered before any relationship. Really, I have proof. :-) If she's a cancer and you're an aries, you'll make better friends than lovers. But if you're both water signs or fire signs, then get ready for some fun. Plus, seduction is all about knowing your target. You have to step into her universe, so consult the stars.

(The First Phone Call After You Get Her Number)

I’m terribly disappointed by the men I’ve met lately who don’t know how to call a woman. They have no purpose or aim and are just calling because they ‘got the number’. Yuck. Follow these steps before a woman pulls a fade-away or banishes you to the Friend Zone.



1. Gentleman, the REASON for the first phone call is to set up a meeting. Remember that.

Get to know her better by being her lover… not just her friend. Face-to-face is much more intimate.

You want to get to know her better and possibly become her “lover”. Your lover is not someone with whom you have idle chit-chat on the phone while playing Wii… well, not until MUCH later. The lovin’ part of “lover” usually happens face-to-face, on a living room couch, or in a bedroom (or a local park if you’re feeling particularly adventurous ;-) ).



2. Keep the first phone call brief.

When I say brief, I mean 5-10 minutes. Setting up a get together shouldn’t take longer than that.



3. Make her laugh!

Steer clear of topics like your *yawn* job… And your equally *yawn* family. BOOO-ring. Have something funny to say. Tell her something odd that happened to you that day… or tease her about the way she looked REALLY excited when you told her (yes, TOLD her) to give you her phone number. :-) Light-hearted conversation will entice her and make her WANT to spend time with you.



4. Silence your fear of rejection and take a huge risk!

Tell her that you want to see her on __(whenever is convenient for YOU)___ and then SHUT YOUR MOUTH.

Do not add “or whenever is good for you” or “if that works with your schedule.” In fact, do not even ask for her schedule first! If she wants to go out with you SHE will offer an alternative time/day if the date/time you suggested doesn’t work for her.

You just have to remember to close your mouth after you say it… and she will do the rest.



5. Have an idea of where you want to go.

Think about the conversation that you had with her when you first met. Did she mention any clues about her personality? Did she say that she enjoyed something? What was she wearing? Were you in a book store when you met? Or was it a nightclub?

Think about the details and try to figure her out a bit. In order to do that you should listen more than you talk.

And if she didn’t give you any clues when you first met her, then have 2 really interesting/nice/relaxed places in mind. Some date ideas that make her think “Hmmm, that sounds like a cool place to go.”



6. Become an attractive person before you try to attract someone.

If you have no clue how that’s done, then visit FirstLoveYou.com for more information from Bad Girl Bianca's Seduction Guide for Men.

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